Two common ways of handling a situation are either to do so

according to one¹s own personal needs and desires with no specific

regard to other people, or one can base a decision on how it will be

viewed by others. The vast majority of people fall on the side of

being worried about what others are saying and thinking. Both good and

bad can come from living this way, but it has seemed to remain

constant throughout history. People have a natural desire to belong,

and to fit in with a certain group. No matter what group an individual

chooses, that individual almost always is forced sacrifice a part of

them self in order to seem more a part of things. People in this world

seem to need companionship and are often too weak to stand alone. As a

result, they stand together in what ever group they are best suited

to.